tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post5925206611536584208..comments2023-08-05T07:19:13.900-07:00Comments on Missing Maxie: The Ripple EffectAbby Levisshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-40074080351494695462013-09-10T16:22:33.651-07:002013-09-10T16:22:33.651-07:00I totally get this post. How the little waves smac...I totally get this post. How the little waves smack you in the back when you're scanning the horizon for the big ones. oh yes. <br /><br />I do want to say that I couldn't read your blog when I first found it because you got Mo so quickly and we had to wait 'so long' (not long at all in the grand scheme of things) for Nathan. I'm so glad I follow you now. Max and Eva were so close in age. I wish I had been following in the early days but there you go...nothing is ever right is it. Thinking of you Abby as you swim in the waves. <br />EmEmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-66972441363639476462013-09-10T12:05:48.503-07:002013-09-10T12:05:48.503-07:00"The new normal is making sure to always be o..."The new normal is making sure to always be on guard, to have your speech prepared, to know how you are going to handle a variety of situations that you used to be able to take for granted"--Yes, this! All. The. Time. emilynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-15332658563231058462013-09-10T10:59:25.664-07:002013-09-10T10:59:25.664-07:00I'm so sorry. Such an inadequate statement fo...I'm so sorry. Such an inadequate statement for how I feel for you guys. It is soul crushing. It is unfair. It is not the way that it's supposed to be. I am just so sorry that this is your "normal" and that you always have to be on guard with your hearts and souls. Mostly, I am just so sorry that Maxie is not here. It's not right. Thinking of you and your beautiful boy today, and always. Love you. xojessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-14695007413159039472013-09-10T10:29:31.650-07:002013-09-10T10:29:31.650-07:00I am so sorry that you live with a new normal inst...I am so sorry that you live with a new normal instead of being able to point to both your boys and say, "those two rug rats are ours." It is so ridiculously unfair to Max and Mo and you and Ted and all the people who love and miss Maxie so much. Just wanted to say that I know it's not the same, but I feel the ripples of Max not being here everyday and I know so many other people do too. He is so painfully missed. xoxoBiancanoreply@blogger.com