tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post7497445405041941921..comments2023-08-05T07:19:13.900-07:00Comments on Missing Maxie: This is differentAbby Levisshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-77800709061071588292012-02-01T13:14:29.100-08:002012-02-01T13:14:29.100-08:00I think about these things, too. Toby had 7 weeks....I think about these things, too. Toby had 7 weeks. He never got to play with a toy, walk, or even sit up. He never got to experience anything other than formula. He never got to play with his brother. He did get to laugh one time. He laughed the day before he died. Or the day he died. We don't have a time of death so we don't know if it happened at night or early in the morning. These things make me incredibly sad.Rebecca Patrick-Howardhttp://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=510492805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-29833510036688809102012-02-01T11:01:47.606-08:002012-02-01T11:01:47.606-08:00You and Ted did give him a beautiful life in the s...You and Ted did give him a beautiful life in the short time that he was with you. Maxie was loved, cherished and adored and so, so lucky to have you guys as his parents. There is no question that you would have given him an amazing and beautiful life had he not been taken from you so tragically. There are so many heartbreaking levels to your loss and I think about Maxie and you every single day. I am so sorry that Maxie is not here with you and my heart breaks at how devastating his loss is. And I also mourn the life that Maxie will not get to experience. I am so sorry that sweet, wonderful, happy Max does not get to do all of the wonderful things that you imagined for him. You are right, it is different. And it is horrible. I am so, so sorry. For you, for Ted and for Maxie. I love you all very much.Jessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-823549861851853736.post-23254828549346431942012-02-01T08:33:51.175-08:002012-02-01T08:33:51.175-08:00You are right, this is different. I think about t...You are right, this is different. I think about the impact that losing Max has on you and Ted every day, and I also think that it's beyond unfair that this little boy is missing out on everything life has to offer. He's missing out on all the things that people take for granted, and all of us are missing out on watching him grow up and develop. I am so sorry he's not here. He deserved a full, happy life.Tamarnoreply@blogger.com