I was his mommy!
Sunday, March 25, 2012
I am slowly approaching that date where Max will have been gone longer than he was here. I already feel like it was a dream that I was ever a mother. I was a mother once! I really was! I woke up throughout the night to nurse my baby, and when he started sleeping through the night, I woke up early to slowly turn on the lights and welcome him into a new day. I spoke to my baby in hushed tones while I carefully pulled him out of his crib and kissed his cheeks and told him how much I missed him and how much I loved him. I wished him, "Good Morning Pumpkin." I balanced getting him ready in the morning and getting myself ready. I sat him in his bumbo chair and fed him a mushy breakfast while I smiled and played with him. I cuddled him in my arms and sang to him and played with him until it was time to walk out the door. I took him out of his car seat and carried him into his daycare and smiled at him while he smiled at his babysitter. My heart broke every day as I handed over my beloved baby, my most favorite person, to someone else to care for while I left to go to work. I kissed his cheeks as much as I could before turning around and walking out the door. I often cried once I reached my car, before driving away. I checked my email all day long, looking for photos of my baby. I talked about him to anyone who would listen. I drove directly to pick him up every day, my heart full of anticipation. I looked around the room for his cute face and found him smiling right at me, happy to see his mommy (me). I brought him home and played with him and fed him dinner and then gave him a soapy warm bath. I read to him and sang to him. I rubbed his little back and played with the curls at the nape of his neck. I kissed him like crazy. I was his mommy! I was a mommy! Max was and is my baby! For nine months, I lived in what has become a dream...but it was real! It really happened. I have to kick myself to remind myself that it actually happened. If I remember the details, my heart breaks into pieces. If I don't think about it, I want to die. I can't believe this is life now. I ache for my baby. I long to be his mommy again.
loading..
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
1 comment
You are now and will always be a mom... his mom...
Post a Comment