Dear Teddy,
On this Fathers Day, I am thinking
about how lucky our two boys are to have you.
I have a vivid memory from our early
days of dating. We were walking along the bottom of some cliffs on
the beach in San Diego and telling each other our plans for our
future families....not “necessarily” with each other at that
point....we were still feeling each other out. I wanted 2-3
children. You said that sounded about right. We talked about names.
You shot down a couple of my obscure Hebrew names, I thought I could
bring you around.
As it became more and more clear that
we would end up together, we spoke more and more about children. How
we would raise them, what traditions we would pass on, what kind of
summer camps we would send them to (I said Jewish camp, you said
basketball camp). As soon as we married, we began planning for a
baby. Maxie was conceived five months later. I found out that I was
pregnant with him one weekend while you were away on a ski trip with
a bunch of your high school buddies. It was so hard to wait until
you got home to give you the news. I cried, you hugged me....we were
both over the moon.
Maxie's birth was the very best day of
both of our lives and I could see from the very beginning of his life
what a wonderful choice I had made for my husband. You were so proud
at his bris. I knew you were excited to get to father this beautiful
little boy.
You brought so many traditions to our
home in the short time that we were blessed with Maxie. You are the
one who brought music to the morning routine – which is why I
believe it was our favorite time of day. Maxie's smile grew
exponentially whenever his daddy entered the room. He loved you so
much. He knew how much you loved him too.
I have never seen so much love and
loyalty as I did when Maxie was in the hospital. I don't think you
slept for 48 hours. You were by his bedside standing then sitting,
then standing again, talking to him, playing music for him, begging
him to stay with us. I remember you looking at me and saying that
you would never be the same again. I know, in my heart, that Maxie
felt you there with him. He knows that you wouldn't give up. I am
so sorry that you have been through this my love. Nobody deserves
this less than you. You are a person who brings joy and laughter
everywhere you go. You deserve nothing but happiness. You are more
deserving than nearly anyone I have ever met.
Baby M will be here soon and he is one
lucky little boy. He has a super fun, incredibly loving and devoted
father. I know that you will take good care of him and love him as
much as you love his older brother. I am so sorry that this Fathers
Day, none of your children are physically here for us to celebrate
YOU with. You deserve to be celebrated because you are simply
wonderful.
Teddy – I love you with all of my
heart. I would do anything to ensure happiness for your future. I
know that your second little boy will bring a genuine smile back to
your face. I can't wait. I hope that next year, Fathers Day is a much more "Happy" occasion.
XOXO – Your wife
3 comments
Thinking of you all on Father's day and always.
Oh Abby Ted is so blessed to live his life with you. Love just pours out of every word of this post! I'm so sorry you both have to live with out your most beautiful Max. I hope oneday Fathers day will hold precious memories and bright futures! All the warmest wishes and thoughts your way!
That is a beautiful tribute to Ted. I'm so glad you have each other.
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